Codependency or Codependence describes a pattern of detrimental behavioral interactions within a dysfunctional relationship, most commonly a relationship with an alcohol or drug abuser.
In general, the codependent is understood to be a person who perpetuates the addiction or pathological condition of someone close to them in a way that hampers recovery. This can be done through direct control over the dependent, by making excuses for their dysfunctional behavior, or by blunting negative consequences. These actions are described as enabling. ~ Wikipedia
A parents, spouses, kids, friends and colleagues- even TDA has displayed this type of behavior in the past. In cases where the alcoholic is a close family member, it is almost impossible not to have at least some codependency issues unless one is devoid of compassion. This symbiotic but caustic relationship between codependents and their addicts adds greatly to the collateral damage of the disease with self-replicating repercussions. That is why I always suggest the friends and families of someone suffering an addiction seek support, counseling, and in some cases even treatment.
The definition provided above is utilitarian for my purpose here, however I did highlight one part that I felt while true needed a little something added. Codependency is often thought of on the individual or family basis, but the most detrimental acts of codependency are societal. The same drugs and alcohol that are contributing factors to the majority of violence, crime, neglect, and health issues in our nation are not just condoned, but routinely promoted, advertised, and considered sacrosanct.
Until as a nation we can first (before advertising, legalization, and liberalization) greatly reduce the social maladies directly related to drugs and alcohol, I consider all the points above as codependency issues.
